What is erectile dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is a common male sexual disorder. It is the inability to get or keep an erection that allows for satisfying sexual activity. It can happen occasionally or regularly, with or without any clear reason. Some men with ED are not able to get an erection at all.
ED is not a life-threatening disorder, but it can have a negative impact on your quality of life and that of your partner.
How common is ED?
ED is a common condition in men of all ages and ethnicities. The risk of having ED increases with age.
What is an erection?
Getting an erection is a process that includes physical, hormonal, and psychological elements. The penis is made of soft, spongy, elastic tissue that fills with blood to make it grow in size and become rigid. Around the spongy tissue and the prostate, there are nerves that send signals so that the blood vessels supply the blood (Fig. 1). These signals are controlled by the male hormone testosterone.
ED is a very intimate and private condition. Most patients consult multiple sources of information for erectile problems: friends, the Internet, media, a sexual health shop, a pharmacist, a psychologist, or a medical doctor.
Some men choose not to discuss it with anybody or not to go to their doctor because they:
- Think they have normal erection, so it is unnecessary to take any treatment
- Assume they can stop their sexual life, so it is unnecessary to take any treatment
- Are afraid they may have an incurable disease
- Are worried about a wrong diagnosis
- Do not have easy access to a doctor
- Have had a negative experience in the hospital
- Have friends or relatives who had a negative experience when treated for a similar condition
- Do not know about possible treatment options
- Have financial issues
- Feel isolated because of their age or condition
While these reasons may seem convincing they should not prevent you from seeking help and improving your quality of life.
Questions to ask your doctor
You may have a lot of questions regarding your condition. EAU Patient Information on ED covers many of these questions but it does not deal with your personal situation. The urologist and the sexologist are the best people to discuss this with and you should not feel embarrassed about addressing any of your concerns.
Here are some of the questions you could ask your doctor:
- Why have I developed this problem?
- Why is this happening to me?
- What will happen in the next months and years if I do not get treatment?
- What will happen in the next months and years if I choose to have treatment?
- Which are the available treatment options?
- Which treatment option do you recommend for me?
- Why do you recommend this treatment option for me?
- What can I expect from that treatment?
- What are the possible side effects or risks of this treatment?
- Will it cure my condition?
- How long will I need to be treated for?